Love is a mysterious thing, isn’t it? Many would describe love as a “hit-and-miss” thing, but the truth is that there’s a mastery to love. I have a different definition of love, and you might have a different one. This definition can be your “language”; the language of love. Once you know how to read it, the slide of your relationship can go as smoothly as you can imagine.

The concept of love languages was introduced by Gary Chapman in the book, “The Five Love Languages” and our love language quiz is inspired by the book. This unique love language quiz is designed to help you know your way of giving and receiving love among its five languages;

• Acts of Service
• Receiving Gifts
• Quality Time
• Words of Affirmation, and
• Physical Touch

Knowing your love language can complement your relationships with your loved ones, as this unique language can give you insights into the various expressions of love that you resonate with the most!

So, don’t wait anymore. Grab a pen and notebook, track your answers, and find your love language today. This step of self-discovery will help you figure out your primary expression of love and connect with your loved ones on an emotional level.

Please note that Calm Sage understands the importance of your privacy. Your responses are not shared with any third-party website, so rest assured that your information is safe with us.

This quiz isn’t an official test and can only offer a simple understanding of your love language out of the five love languages as presented by Gary Chapman. If you need an in-depth understanding of your love languages, then it is suggested that you speak to a professional for more.

Are you ready to express yourself in the language that speaks to your heart?

Let’s begin!

What’s My Love Language?

Important: It is advised that you don’t skip any of the questions in the test. Just choose the answer that applies to you and try to be as honest as you can for the best result!

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1.

Choose a statement that applies to you the most…

• I feel loved when my S/O or friends spend one-on-one time with me
• I feel loved when my S/O helps me with chores
• I feel loved when my S/O or friends give me a thoughtful gift
• I feel loved when my S/O cuddles with me or hugs me after a long day
• I feel loved when my S/O or friends appreciate me, verbally

Please select a answer

2.

If you have to say “I love you” with song lyrics, which one would you pick?

• “I'm so in love with you. It just keeps getting better. I want to spend the rest of my life with you by my side.” By Lonestar
• “I'll be there for you, these five words I swear to you. When you breathe, I want to be the air for you.” - Bon Jovi
• “There's something about the way you look tonight. Takes my breath away, it's that feeling I get about you deep inside.” - Elton John
• “Oh, my love, my darling, I've hungered for your touch.” - The Righteous Brothers
• “When I see your face, there's not a thing that I would change, 'cause you're amazing just the way you are.” - Bruno Mars

Please select a answer

3.

Your S/O threw a surprise party, what’s the best part of your party?

• Having meaningful conversations and laughing together
• The efforts to make the party fun and that I had a stress-free celebration
• The thoughtful gifts I got from everyone who came
• The hugs and kisses I got from my long-distance friends
• The appreciation I got through heartfelt words and compliments from everyone

Please select a answer

4.

You’re taking a day off and spending the day with yourself. What are you doing?

• Self-reflecting with meditation or engaging in a hobby I love
• Organizing my space and getting the errands done
• Treating myself with a dessert, a gift, or that perfume I’d been eying
• Going to a spa, getting a massage, or going to a nail salon
• Going on a shopping spree and lunch afterward

Please select a answer

5.

You’re on vacation with your family. What are you most likely to do?

• Playing games with the cousins I see once a year
• Organizing fun outings for the family
• Buying souvenirs for my friends and coworkers back home
• Taking care of the little ones in the family
• Joining my siblings/cousins for a fun party

Please select a answer

6.

If you had to give yourself a tagline, what would it be?

• Creating memories, living life to the fullest
• Changing the world, one act of kindness at a time
• Embracing life’s little gifts
• Strengthening bonds, one hug at a time
• Inspiring, Motivating, and Spreading Positivity

Please select a answer

7.

You have a date tonight. What kind of date would you prefer?

• A dinner date where I can get to know my partner
• Someplace we can volunteer for a cause
• A surprise, but thoughtful night out
• Getting a couples massage
• A coffee date where we can have fun and talk casually

Please select a answer

8.

What’s the most meaningful gift you’ve ever received?

• A day of undivided attention from my S/O or friends
• A relaxing day when I didn’t have to worry about anything
• A surprisingly thoughtful and expensive gift
• A fun day spent with my S/O lounging and relaxing
• A thoughtfully penned letter

Please select a answer

9.

When you’re upset, how do you want to be cheered up?

• By receiving a compliment
• By having someone accompany you for lunch
• By someone bringing you a cup of coffee
• By having someone hug or kiss you
• By having someone praise you

Please select a answer

10.

If you had to choose a romantic gift, what would you choose?

• A beach vacation with your S/O
• A year of your S/O doing household chores
• A massage chair
• A practical gift, like a gift coupon, books, etc.
• An expensive set of earrings

Please select a answer

11.

After an unbelievably rough day at work, what are you looking forward to?

• Catching up on your favorite variety show
• Reading a good book
• Ordering food from your favorite takeout place
• Cuddling on the couch with your pet or S/O
• Talking to a friend to vent out

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Your Love Language is Quality Time

You value meaningful connections and shared experiences with your loved ones the most. Your relationships thrive on the quality time you spend with your dear ones, creating lasting memories, and strengthening your bonds. Whether it’s engaging in meaningful conversations, going on adventures, or simply being in the presence of your loved ones, you invest time in relationships.

Your Love Language is Acts of Service

Your heart is undoubtedly touched by the thoughtful actions and gestures that your loved one offers. These heartfelt gestures make your life more enjoyable and easier. You express love by offering your assistance and appreciation when your loved ones do the same for you. The joy in love for you, lies in the little acts of service that show your care and support, showing love is a tangible thing in your relationships.

Your Love Language is Receiving Gifts

The exchange of gifts, often thought out, holds the most significance in your life. The effort put into selecting and presenting a gift by your loved one is proof of their love and understanding. Your heart rejoices in the sentiment behind each gift, and the act of giving and receiving gifts becomes a powerful expression of love and appreciation.

Your Love Language is Physical Touch

To you, love is a deep appreciation for the power the physical touch of your loved one holds. From tight hugs to warm cuddles, you find the soothing touch of your partner in a language that speaks directly to your heart. In your relationships, the warmth and closeness that come with physical touch create an intimate bond, strengthening the emotional connection you share with your dearest ones.

Your Love Language is Words of Affirmation

The power of spoken and written words holds great value in your heart and relationships. Hearing encouraging words and expressing love through words and affirmations is a source of joy and reassurance in your relationships. Whether they are verbal compliments or heartfelt notes shared by your friends and partner, affirm, to you, that love is not only felt by also beautifully voiced through words and affirmations.

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Disclaimer: This quiz is not medically accurate and does not define your personality. For an in-depth assessment, you can visit or contact a mental health professional.

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