Quick Tips On How You Can Become An Alpha Male
Wow! What a guy! Loved and respected by one and all, men and women alike. Haven’t we heard ourselves, saying this (Maybe not vocally!) So, what are the qualities of an alpha male that make him class apart from other men?
Sure as a guy, you would want to have that stature, don’t you? How about we quickly list out everything that’ll lay down a roadmap on how to become alpha male? We’ll let you in on some of the most common alpha male characteristics which will help you gain a more respected and a more dominant stance in the society.
If you are new to the concept, worry not! Much before delving into these alpha male traits, we’ll take you through the very basics and of course there is no end.
Being an Alpha Male is important not just to gain the attention of the fairer sex but do attain a more dominant stance in the society. It certainly doesn’t mean that you should impose yourself on others or look down upon others. No! It is about becoming a positive force to be reckoned with. When you become an alpha male you become a positive force who people would want to be associated with, who is rational and who doesn’t take decisions in a fit of emotions.
Having said that, your average alpha male lives life to the fullest and most importantly, he is able to live a life that he always wanted to.
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Who Is An Alpha Male?
To put it concisely – an alpha male is a man wanting to have a more dominant role in various situations of life. But, it won’t be wrong to say that the definition of alpha male is quite subjective. Some might say that alpha males don’t care about others.
Here’s the truth, yes! They are dominant, have the capacity to impose their will, have access to both men and women, but that’s because they are positive, compassionate, caring, charismatic and know how to take charge of things. They lead by an example. Of course there are several other things as well which we shall cover later in this blog.
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Traits Of An Alpha Male
There are some distinguishing alpha male qualities which we are going to share with you guys. We know that it won’t happen in a day but with perseverance and a positive frame of mind, you will be able to incorporate the below mentioned alpha male traits.
1. Alphas Are Positive
One of the important alpha male personality traits is that he is extremely positive. He carries that positive vibe which cheers everybody around him. And, who wouldn’t want to be with a guy like that. An alpha looks for the solution of problems and not the other way round. Bottomline – alpha males are extremely positive and extremely likable.
2. They Are Confident
Alpha males don’t second guess their decisions and neither are they much bothered about what others would think or if they’ll laugh at their decisions. The reason being, their decisions are well thought of. The intent behind their decisions is positive and it certainly is not meant to harm others.
And, even if they’ve made a mistake, big deal! They’ll own it, learn from it and not make the same mistake ever again. Alpha males don’t cry over spilled milk.
3. Alpha Males Aren’t Passive
One of the very common alpha male personality traits is that they are assertive and know how to speak their mind. When they speak their mind, they don’t just talk in the air. Like, as mentioned above, alphas are confident and know what they are doing. Therefore, they own their desires and know how to assert them on others.
For instance, if a group of friends decide to hangout at a cafe’, the alpha would assert his choice of cafe’ most probably because he knows that his choice of cafe’ will have the best food and will be in budget.
4. For An Alpha Male Comfort Zone Doesn’t Exist
Alpha males love challenges even if it means pushing themselves out of their cushion zone. Which is why, nothing comes across as undoable for them. The other side of this aspect is that, they come across as the leader of the pack; they know how to mitigate any risks before letting the whole pack into danger.
5. They Are Nice But Not Overly Nice
Being nice is good, it’s human. But let’s face it there are times when you have to assert yourself, sometimes you got to put your will before anyone else. You don’t have to be nice every time even if it means coming across as the bad guy. And, since an alpha male isn’t always nice, he isn’t even considered as a pushover, someone who people can take for granted.
How To Become An Alpha Male
This is kind of an extension to the traits we have mentioned above. Start by doing the things the likes of which are mentioned below and see yourself being viewed as an alpha –
1. Start Having Your Own Viewpoint
Listen to others but do what you think is right. You could maybe start listening to your conscience better.
2. Do Good But Only If Its Required
Let’s take it this way; you don’t have to show off your good deeds every single time. Let your goodness flow naturally, as a habit and not as an act.
3. Adhere To A Good Lifestyle
Do we mean a ripped muscular body? No! Do we mean a hefty bank balance? No! We are not against these things. But, what you should expect is a good quality of life. Something that leaves you satisfied at the end of the day.
4. Challenge Yourself
In connection with the point above, let’s say you wish to have a better body. Great! Challenge yourself to do a certain amount of workout every single day. If you wish to have the car of your dreams, work hard and save smart so that soon you will be able to park that shiny ride in your garage.
5. Be Discreet In Showing Appreciation
Again if someone has shown some improvement, acknowledge it but, be very discrete in showing appreciation. If you just throw away appreciating remarks on every situation, your appreciation won’t matter to people.
Bottom-line: Appreciate when you really mean it! This way, people will believe that you only appreciate when something remarkable is done, instead of pointless flattery.
Quick Difference Between Alpha And A Beta Male:
|Are nice but not overly nice||Are always nice|
|Are highly confident, don’t second guess their decisions||Are under confident, question their own decisions or look for approval every time|
|Are assertive, take the plunge||Wait for others to initiate, mostly are not leaders|
|Discreet in showing appreciation||Show appreciation every time even when not required|
|Know when and how to speak their mind||They are mostly apprehensive about speaking their mind|
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As we said “what it takes and what it doesn’t to be an alpha male” is quite subjective. So, if we have missed on any alpha male qualities which you think should be there in an alpha male, do drop it in the comments section below. Also, if there is a habit that a man needs to build to become an alpha male, share with us in the comments section below